Susan Miller

·Master of Fine Arts in Jewelry Design, Pratt Institute, 2012

·Bachelor of Arts in Gemology, University of California, Los Angeles, May 2005

·Editor-in-Chief, White Victoria (2018 - present)

·Write and research feature articles and profiles for print and online publication

·Contributing Writer, Modern Jeweler and Ornament

·Write and publish freelance articles for IGS and WSJ Magazine

·Jewelry Appraiser (2012 - 2020)

wedding pearls

When it comes to weddings, pearls are the ultimate accessory for those looking to exude grace and class. For centuries, these lustrous gems have been associated with purity and sophistication, a tradition that holds true today.

Whether you're a blushing bride or an honored guest, pearls are a great addition to any outfit. In this guide, we will touch on everything from traditional customs to styling tips. 

If you're a bride, we'll show you how to incorporate them in ways that enhance your natural beauty while still standing out. This way, you'll look your best when it's time to say "I do." If you are a guest, we will explore how to wear pearls to a wedding so you can join in on the trend without stealing the bride's thunder

We invite you into the enchanting world of wedding pearls—it will be love at first sight!

The Tradition of Pearls in Weddings

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Pearls have been used in wedding customs for many centuries. They are seen as symbols of purity, beauty, and class that will never go out of style. 

Ancient societies thought pearls were the tears cried by gods and goddesses. With this kind of history, who wouldn't want one for their big day? 

Ancient Greek brides wore them to demonstrate both innocence and loyalty. During England's Victorian period, it was common practice for a groom to gift his bride pearl jewelry. In those days, pearls symbolized purity and being worthy.

Today, people don't just wear pearls to weddings because they're traditional or meaningful. Although those reasons certainly do still apply. They also wear them because a string of pearls goes equally well with an antique lace gown or an ultra-modern dress cut from silk organza.

What is more, cultured pearl earrings complement bridesmaids' dresses without overpowering them. And well-chosen pearl accessories complete a groom's ensemble without detracting from fashion-forward styling. 

In short, there has never been a time when pearls were not "in" for weddings. They are the original bejeweled bridal must-haves!

Pearls for the Bride

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Pearls are the ultimate symbol of elegance for a bride. They can be worn by any woman, regardless of her style. Here's how to do it your way:

Classic Choices

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Many brides still love traditional pearl jewelry. A strand of white pearls around your neck shows elegance and works well with a vintage-style dress. 

Pearl earrings – whether studs or drop ones – also look classy with any bridal outfit. And if you want a royal touch, why not wear a pearl tiara? It'll make you feel like a princess – but one who has timeless style as well!

Modern Twists

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Modern brides are finding new ways to incorporate pearls into their bridal ensemble. For example, suppose you have fallen in love with a traditional wedding gown. Why not give it a contemporary twist by adding a belt studded with these lustrous gems to cinch your waist? 

Alternatively, consider wearing one of this season's pearl-embellished hair accessories. Be that combs, pins, or bands. It will help you get a look that is both otherworldly and chic. 

Just think how beautiful it would be to have loose plaits woven with delicate seed-pearl chains. Or have an updo with cultured freshwater pearls strategically fixed at the back of your head?

Color and Shape

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Choosing the perfect pearls is essential for completing your bridal ensemble. Think about how the pearl's color complements both your complexion and wedding theme. 

While white pearls are a good fit for most brides, consider different hues. These may be pink or peach pearls for a fun twist or black ones for something more dramatic. 

Pearls also come in various shapes. Round is classic, but oval or baroque (irregularly shaped) pearls have a modern edge. 

What is more, matching your pearls to your skin tone and wedding colors will ensure they enhance your natural beauty. Besides, they'll also complement the overall color scheme of your special day.

Pearls for the Groom

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Pearls aren't just for brides! They can also bring a touch of understated elegance to a groom's outfit, creating a polished and cohesive ensemble:

Subtle Elegance

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If you want to look elegant and stylish on your wedding day, consider wearing pearls. A pair of classic pearl cufflinks is a great way to add a touch of sophistication to your suit for the big day. 

Likewise, a pearl tie tack does double duty by keeping your tie in place while also lending an air of luxury. These may be small details, but they won't go unnoticed. Especially by anyone who appreciates fine jewelry and timeless style!

Coordination

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Pairing the groom's pearls with the bride's jewelry is a lovely gesture that represents their union. If the bride wears pearl earrings or a necklace, for example, it would be ideal if her partner also wore pearls. Their outfits would complement each other beautifully this way! 

Aesthetically speaking, coordinating colors and styles leads to an overall more elegant event. Let's say your soon-to-be spouse dons traditional white strands. In this case, maybe you'd sport white pearl studs or cufflinks. 

Or perhaps she has chosen distinctive black or pink ones just for her big day. Mightn't you pick up on those hues when selecting your own wedding accessories? This way, everything looks nice together color-wise as well as theme-wise?!

Pearls for Bridesmaids

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Adding pearls to your bridesmaids' outfits is a wonderful idea if you want to give your wedding party an extra touch of class. This way, you can ensure everyone looks cohesive. Here's how to make sure your bridesmaids wear their pearls with style:

Matching or Complementary

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If the bride is wearing pearls, it might be nice to select similar jewelry for her bridesmaids. It creates a cohesive overall look. So if she's wearing classic white ones, then choosing classic white pearls for the bridesmaids would work well, too. 

Or maybe all the women in the bridal party could wear colored pearls that complement each other. That way, there will still be this harmony between them but also a bit of individuality. It really just depends on what kind of vibe she wants for this part of the wedding day!

Variety

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To suit everyone's taste and style, here are some pearl choices for bridesmaids:

Pearl Necklaces: A classic string or a pendant will work with any type of dress.

• Pearl Earrings: Studs, danglers, or even hoops —all these earrings lend sophistication.

• Pearl Bracelets: Whether it's a simple strand or one among many modern bangles, you can't go wrong with a bracelet.

• Pearl Hair Accessories: From combs and pins to headbands, these pearls add something special.

Pearls for Wedding Guests

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Weddings can pose a fashion challenge, but pearls can solve it beautifully. No matter what color you're wearing or how formal the occasion is, this classic accessory adds elegance like nothing else. Here's how to choose and wear pearls well:

Formal vs. Casual

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If the wedding is formal, classic, and elegant, pearls are a good bet, like a string of pearls or pearl drop earrings. These styles go well with cocktail dresses and evening gowns. 

For less formal weddings, smaller pearls that aren't overpowering may be better. A light pearl bracelet or stud earrings could be just right. 

Modern pearl jewelry designs might also work for casual ceremonies held in gardens or on beaches. Consider baroque pearls or pieces with minimalist styling.

Complementary Colors

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To achieve an elegant appearance, it is important to choose pearls that go well with your clothes. White pearls are a classic choice because they suit all colors. 

But if you want something a little different, try wearing pearls in colors that complement your outfit. For example, soft pink pearls look great with pastels. And if you're after a subtle wow factor, this is definitely worth considering! 

Equally worth thinking about are black pearls. These create a wonderful contrast against lighter tones (plus they're also seriously chic). 

It's all about picking out the undertones in the pearls and matching these with what you've got on, too. Do this, and you'll always look put-together – in the coolest possible way!

Avoiding Overdoing It

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If you wear pearls, they can make your outfit look better. But don't overdo it. Instead of lots of pearl things together, pick one or two pieces that go well with what you're wearing. 

For example, imagine you have a big fancy necklace made of pearls. Just wear simple pearl earrings rather than ones that are large or have lots of decoration on them. 

Or if you put on a bracelet made out of pearls, don't also wear a necklace. Then there might be too much going on, and people won't know where to look! 

Sometimes, it's better to have fewer things – as long as they are nice ones. So that those things really stand out. This way, people will think you look classy and stylish.

Pearls for Mothers of the Bride and Groom

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On the wedding day, it's important for the mothers of the bride and groom to look and feel their best. They have a big role to play!

One way they can add some elegance and sophistication to their attire? Pearls. No matter whether they are incorporated into jewelry or clothing details. In any case, these little lovelies are sure to make moms feel both celebrated and chic:

Elegant Choices

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As the wedding planning begins, one item you may consider for the mothers of the bride and groom is elegant pearl jewelry. A timeless strand of pearls can complement a graceful dress beautifully. It will also work well with any other accessories she may choose to wear. 

Similarly, pearl earrings will add a touch of sophistication to whatever outfit they're paired with. And don't overlook pearl bracelets. These can be either delicate or chunky but always chic (just like her). 

Giving one — or all three! — will allow her to shine on your big day while still looking classically stylish.

Coordination

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While choosing pearls for the moms, it's significant to coordinate their jewelry with that of the bride. But without being too matchy-matchy.

If the bride is wearing white pearls, consider ones in a similar shade but different designs. Opt for something like a multi-strand necklace or pearl brooch. 

You can also think about coordinating with the wedding's color scheme. Suppose the bride has pink or gold accents on her pearls, for instance. Then, select pieces with those colors incorporated into them. 

This way, everything will look good together without anyone having to sacrifice their personal style!

Pearls for Other Wedding Party Members

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Another option is to incorporate pearls into the outfits of other members of the wedding party. This can help bring a sense of grace and sophistication to your special day:

Flower Girls and Ring Bearers

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For the younger members of the wedding party, such as flower girls and ring bearers, pearls can be a delightful accessory. Flower girls can wear dainty pearl bracelets or small pearl hairpins. The delicate pieces complement their youthful charm without overwhelming them.

For ring bearers, consider a tiny pearl tie pin or a subtle pearl accent on their boutonnieres. This adds just a touch of sophistication in a child-friendly way!

Grandparents

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Even grandparents can wear pearls too! There are plenty of options that are both stylish and easy to wear.

For grandmas, think about a beautiful classic pearl necklace or some simple pearl studs. They go with everything and bring her look together perfectly. 

Grandpas might like something along the lines of mother-of-pearl cufflinks or even a small but mighty pearl tie pin. It's kind of like their secret-style weapon when they're dressed up. 

Plus, who doesn't love seeing a well-dressed older couple with gorgeous pearls on their wedding day?

Conclusion

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If you're attending a wedding, pearls are an excellent choice. They're versatile, elegant, and always in style. Whether you're part of the bridal party or simply a well-wisher, you can't go wrong with these gems. They'll elevate your outfit and show unity with the theme without looking dated. 

Because they come in so many types and shades and can be mixed together, don't be afraid to have fun when dressing up. After all, there's a reason why people have worn them for centuries. Pearls are beautiful as well as classy. 

So incorporate them into your clothes or jewelry for the big day. And let their timeless glamour speak for itself—it will!

FAQs

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Can guests wear pearls to a wedding without breaking etiquette?

Yes, guests can wear pearls to a wedding. They are a timeless and sophisticated option that complements most wedding attire.

What type of pearl jewelry is best suited for a wedding?

If you want to add elegance without outshining the bride, choose a simple pearl necklace, stud earrings, or delicate bracelet.

How can I ensure my pearls complement my wedding outfit?

Select pearls that complement the color and style of your outfit. White pearls are versatile, and they go with almost anything. But if you want something different, try a black or colored pearl for extra flair.